Are you a good father? /Do you want to have kids?

As I am getting closer to my 30s, I'm starting to think more about having a family, stability and of course having kids of my own..
Yes, the commitment required is really scary for me, [u]But[/u] having kids and raise them is something my heart longs for to be honest..

Would I be a good father or not .. I do not know for sure 😊.

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Coletracer · M

As a young man, I wanted at least 5 kids. Ended up with a great son and an ex-wife. So goes the way of life for me. I hope you can be a good father, love your kids and pick a good wife that values you. Always put your family first above everything (except God) and communicate with them! Listen to them and to what is said! Lead your family but don't try to control them. Share your life and your thoughts. Always be honest. Well, that's all the advice I can give! Good luck!

ASLAN · 26-30, M

@Coletracer thank you Sir.. I appreciate these words of wisdom 😊

Wales · M

You can prevent all kinds of needless suffering by never reproducing. People who want to make their own are thoughtless and show a genuine lack of compassion when so many in this overcrowded world live in need. Why not adopt someone in need of a family? People who set out to reproduce are thinking of themselves and what they want.

ASLAN · 26-30, M

@Wales um, okay 🙂.
Idk what to say tbh.. That is your pov, and I respect it. Your choice of words there are kindda narrow minded tho 😅.

Also, Adoption is not an option where I live.. We have fostering only and it's very difficult 🤷‍♂️.

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