How do you motivate the unmotivated young adult? Say, if it's family, is it your job to? How do you help them get over their dark thoughts?

...when they won't even talk to you.

Sometimes, we call it a depression. But some days, I wonder if it should be called laziness instead.

I know we're different. Timelines and all that crap. But when I'm sad and down, I let myself be that but then I still do what needed doing. How is that fair? -.-