bert199 · 51-55, M
Life lessons have taught me people change they soften a little bit with time. And maybe develop a little more patience overtime. By time I mean many many years. People are who they are. You are not going to change anybody. I’ve gone through relationships, thinking I could change them only to find out people who they are. You’ll have to find a way to love him for who he is and moving out is not a bad thing. Who wants to live at home with her parents anyways? I moved out when I was 18 and never looked back the ultimate freedom. Make my own mistakes. Nobody to criticize me but myself. Embrace this next step and see what it brings you
Pretzel · 70-79, M
did it get any better?
humpydumpy · 18-21, F
@Pretzel slowly getting better yes
Pretzel · 70-79, M
@humpydumpy oh good.
Revanchist · 31-35, M
Maybe reach out and try to talk to him, at the very least then you can say that you tried.
humpydumpy · 18-21, F
@Revanchist I was planning to try soon
Revanchist · 31-35, M
@humpydumpy Just be honest, I’m sure you can work it out. And it shows maturity on your part for reaching out.
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
Seemingly a difficult situation
Depends on why he kicked you out
Give it time but reach out to him and see rhe feedback
Depends on why he kicked you out
Give it time but reach out to him and see rhe feedback
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
Oooooh...that's too bad.
But, what did you do to make him kick you out ?
If you had a nice relationship, finished school or were attending college, or a full-time job, things may have been different.
So what happened ?
But, what did you do to make him kick you out ?
If you had a nice relationship, finished school or were attending college, or a full-time job, things may have been different.
So what happened ?
humpydumpy · 18-21, F
@Midlifemale he doesn't like my bf
HBguy · 61-69, M
Hold your ground. Your emotional wellbeing is all that matters. Good luck!
Justafantasy · M
Did you deserve to get kicked out?
beermeplease · M
why did your dad kick you out? perhaps he would say you need to change, but i don't know.
humpydumpy · 18-21, F
@beermeplease well that's what he would say but it's obviously on him.
beermeplease · M
@humpydumpy i hope you can patch things up. whatever the reason is.
Sapio · 51-55, M
I'm hoping in reading this that you have a place to stay first of all and that second, you and your dad will hopefully talk things out somewhere down the line.
humpydumpy · 18-21, F
@Sapio yup been staying with a friend
Selah ·
If they're not abusing you, you need to go home. Just follow their rules until you can be stable on your own. If they're dysfunctional and annoying you can seek support but it's not safe to be house hopping as a young woman.
I am guessing from your name that he wasn't too impressed with you and your friends?
Birdbox1986 · 31-35, F
Maybe you’re the f’d up one he kicked you out don’t act like the victim
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
@Birdbox1986 yeah...why did she get kicked out ?
humpydumpy · 18-21, F
@Birdbox1986 maybe you shouldn't judge without knowing the full story



