I Have Family Members That Get On My Nerves

My grandmother had eight children who all grew up poor when they got older my mother decided she wasn't going to stay poor so she married a guy who had a bright future and used his money as her statement. One aunt went to college and worked her butt off until she got her doctorate and then got a big flashy job in NYC that she only recently retired from and now goes in between here to visit family and florida where she has a second house and her third husband follows her around like an orphan with his hand out for coins. Unfortunately this fortune made both of them think that they were better than everyone else in the family and they really drive me crazy with it. I love my mother to death but she's not a very good person and neither is my aunt so I don't know why they think they're better than anyone but that just seems to be how they view the world.