I Have Family Members That Get On My Nerves

My brother Ash really is a sweet man Very caring brother and just kind natured by nature. Both of us still live at home. He has O.C.D and usually it kicks in soon as we need to get out of the house. He drives me crazy, oh yes he does! We could be just chilling or watching tv or playing music and soon as we need to get out of the house to go somewhere that's when he have to organise everything including changing things around,clothes shoes hats decor etc...Even as far as having another shower and I am talking like when we are literally out of the door or in the car waiting for him. I know he can't help it and love him to bits but when its time to go, the guy drives me bananas lol..He knows that he does it and he is usually smiling and goofing around...So yeah he gets on my nerves when its time to go!!! But i wouldn't have it in any other way lol...I wouldn't be honest if I said that few times my patience are not tested lol...So yeah he gets on my nerves especially if going out is about me!!!!
#ashgetsonmynerves

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Fernie · F

You have no idea how hard life can get when you have NO family to annoy you...I envy you

Gypsy · 31-35, F

@Fernie I didn't mean to offend anyone and I am sorry if I did. It must be hard. Please don't envy me, nobody that has everything. We all have some shortcomings in one way or the other. I think that's the most hard but yet amazing universal gift we have and call "LIFE".
It is what it is

Fernie · F

@Gypsy I know you didn't mean to offend...and I am not in the least bit offended. I am sure some family members are pains in the ass....I would take that over no family. I always envy people a little when they have extended family...you're never really alone

Gypsy · 31-35, F

@Fernie I am almost too afraid to ask...Please forgive me but
Where is your family? Do you mean
you dont have siblings or mom and dad? Relatives? It's ok if you don't want to answer. I am just really curious, Sorry

Fernie · F

@Gypsy No siblings...grew up with a crazy, extremely violent mother...no father. I had to run from my dysfunctional relatives decades ago...including my mother. Toxic people. Decided to not marry or have kids myself. I made the right choices to save myself but I sure wish it had been different.

Gypsy · 31-35, F

@Fernie I am really sorry

Fernie · F

@Gypsy That's kind Gypsy. It made me tough. Other kids had it worse. Embrace your family...even the annoying ones

Gypsy · 31-35, F

@Fernie Yeah I can imagine. Tough is good also :)
Yeah I love my brother, he is my best friend only 18 months apart so we're super close but I meant what I said, about him, sometimes he gets on my nerves. Its getting better as we get older lol
When we were younger there were a lot of tears and usually it wasnt me either way haha

Fernie · F

@Gypsy 😂...I'm happy that you love each other in spite of his behavior. Kick his ass!

Gypsy · 31-35, F

@Fernie Oh yeah..He thinks i am annoying too :) and mean! He hates it if I touch his stuff, anything! Unless he personally hand it over to me. And yeah I can be a little meany if I want Unfortunately he is massive now..6"3 and fit. I am only 5"7 and not so fit hahaha so the ass kicking stoped around 13.. I can annoy him other ways though but then he kick my ass lol...Our parents don't get involved since we turned 18..Literally they are not interested in our BS drama
They just want us to move out really lol...

Fernie · F

@Gypsy That's funny! He's a 6ft3 manboy! Yeah, never mind..no ass kickin'... just touch his stuff every chance you get!

Gypsy · 31-35, F

@Fernie He is a MAN and a good one too!! He just have OCD and get on my nerves sometimes but I assure you he is not boy otherwise would still be kicking ass lol. He just like his things in particular way and order. Sometimes I am envious of him. I wish i can have that absolute perfectionism and flawlessness in some ways he does things.
It's not all bad. I personally keep trying to be normal and I hate it lol. I adore my brother!

Fernie · F

@Gypsy OH! OCD! That's a whole other thing...now I get it