I Have Family Members That Get On My Nerves

Opinion: The people you love the most are the very people who hurt you the most.

They deny their racist remarks are racist, they are racist, when they are hurting they hurt others.

Then when people try to point out that something is wrong they act offended and deny their behaviors.

( I always find denial peculiar)

Nothing like spending the holidays with rude family memebers

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SoFine · 46-50, F

We are mirrors of each other. They teach you, when you react, that is they have hit a corresponding note of similar in you, else you would not react.

If you are at home-in-you, then no matter their words or actions, your inner stable won't be rocked, as your foundation is solid, not to be swayed by opions, opions are just that, they are not precious, just opinions.

1. BE RIGHT about them been wrong. ..
2. Be right, then risk been unhappy. ..

(I to have work to do with my family. ...)

When we seek out only those we agree with, it becomes style and stagnant.

Maybe we all have become to serious. ...fun is less. ..