I Have Family Members That Get On My Nerves

She comes to me with the same problem over and over, I give advice (that's what she wants right?) Problem just continues because she does nothing about it. I want to help, I really do..I give the best advice I can think of but it's just met with anger and frustration. I feel like I'll be stuck in this loop with her forever. I wish she would just stop talking about it around me, sometimes I just say nothing at all...but that's not right either. 😑

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bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M

Well.. You could always tell her "Ey, dawg. If ya ain't go'n do nuffin 'bout it. Then wind your neck in and quit yo bitching!!" ┬┴┬┴┤ ͜ʖ ͡ °)

ZenKitzune · F

@bearinthebigbluehouse I told her that her thoughts about it are creating her reality...didn't go down well

bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M

@ZenKitzune Den screw dat hoe, dawg!! She ain't taking your advice seriously so they ain't no point in giving it!!! .............................. Okay well, to be serious..... Us sw dawgs don't really know the full story so maaaaaaaybe it's a bit more complicated than we think but i digress.... Y'all already know to take sw advice with the smallest grain of salt. ( ͡- ᴥ ͡-)/🍯

ZenKitzune · F

@bearinthebigbluehouse it involves an idiot guy who she has been letting take advantage for hmmm... 3 decades now

bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M

@ZenKitzune Weeeeeeeeeell, there's the problem..... She's just under his spell..... Aaaaaaaaand... Well.... I have no idea what goes on in her head, but I know it ain't something that can easily be changed by other dawgs!!... Might even be a lost cause at this point but I don't mean to jump to conclusions too quickly.. ┬┴┬┴┤•ᴥ•ʔ/ Shhhhhh.. bear is the last person to ask for relationship stuff!! ( ͡° ᴥ ͡ °)

ZenKitzune · F

@bearinthebigbluehouse I get it but I'm really sick of being on the end of her annoyance when she is the one wanting to talk about a solution.

bearinthebigbluehouse · 26-30, M

@ZenKitzune Well I'd just let her figure it out herself.... It's her problem anyway.. ┬┴┬┴┤-ᴥ-ʔ/

ZenKitzune · F

@bearinthebigbluehouse I'd love to but I gotta live with the consequences of the fucking thing 😒