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I Think I Want a Divorce

Are there any men out there that felt too afraid or guilty to leave their marriage but eventually did? I am stuck like this and need advice.
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polyandrym66 · 70-79, M
I feel for you.
I waited for 2 yrs in a sexless marriage while my wife developed her intimate relationship with her lover and they shut me out of their lives.
I was sure that her love would bring her back to me, and tried my best to hang in there.
In the end, I could not take it any longer. She was head over heels in love with her BBC lover. He became more and more domineering and wanted me to have no sex with her, so he and his friends had exclusive use of her body.
We tried a separation. I got an apartment and left her the house. That lasted 3 months until I found a couple who wanted me for sex. I needed that after my dry spell and jumped at the chance to join them.
That ended things for our marriage and we legally divorced.