I Think I Want a Divorce

Are there any men out there that felt too afraid or guilty to leave their marriage but eventually did? I am stuck like this and need advice.

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PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M

I did...it was hard but I told my ex when we were in counseling that I still loved her but was not IN love with her. As far as my daughter...I spent time with her 5 days a week and every other weekend. I made sure my ex and daughter had everything they needed and in return my ex and I set our own child support dollar amount.

mlihere · 56-60, M

@PTCdresser57: I am happy that you two worked it out. Hope mine can go the same way.

PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M

mlihere it will take work. One thing we never did was bad mouth the other in front of our daughter. When my ex and I both found new partners I told my daughter that which ever house you are at you follow those rules.

mlihere · 56-60, M

@PTCdresser57: Unfortunately my wife bad mouths me in front of our daughter all the time. If I have something to say to her I try to do it when my daughter is not in ear shot.