I Think I Want a Divorce

Are there any men out there that felt too afraid or guilty to leave their marriage but eventually did? I am stuck like this and need advice.

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Hulunwhiskey · 36-40, F

Change is scary especially after being with someone for a while. But you need to ask yourself if you are happy and if not have you tried all avenues to make things better. If she isnt willing or things are not getting better, you have no need to feel guilty. Life is too short.

mlihere · 56-60, M

@netflixnboxedwine: It's me that wants out, not her. I don't want to work it out. I feel guilty for being dishonest with her and myself, wasting our lives and happiness.

Hulunwhiskey · 36-40, F

then you should leave or you will miserable for always. you both deserve to be with people who love you and you love back

mlihere · 56-60, M

@netflixnboxedwine: I agree with you but my wife feels that no one will want her. She also would shut herself down and concentrate only on our daughter. This is another thing that makes me feel guilty.