For those who are divorced, what is the main cause of your failed marriage? Do you regret it?

@meggie There are a lot of men like that unfortunately. They disguise it very well. And women go for the same type again and again. I see it happening in the local wine bars, groups of women just the other side of forty.
Marriage is about sharing and caring.

@peterlee he would never of provided for a family if I had kids. He was a total dreamer that thought he'd be a movie star, rock singer, model etc. But you are right, there are a lot like that.

@meggie Children are an important factor in a new relationship. If the new partner does not get on with the children, it is heading for disaster.

@peterlee that's right. If we'd had kids too he would of used them to control me.