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I Am Getting a Divorce

2 more weeks till we part and I move out, I'm staying at the place while she stays at her parents. She txted me last night that she needs to come over. I can't stand the sight of her right now, and she's totally taken a new page over money, and i feel like she's going to try and come here to convince me of it, as she did a few days ago. Talking with her goes no where, as she'll aim to start reasonably, but then explode if she doesn't get her way, and if the conversation turns into a discussion or with me suggesting a point/alternative just even saying something most times, she'll spin it into an attack on her and start screaming. It was never like this in the beginning 5 years I was with her, just got more like this way in the last 3 years.


Just psyching myself up to mentally endure this again. She's really lost herself. Its very painful to see.
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PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
I wonder if something happened within the last few years to make her feel like she’s lost some sort of control of the life in front of her. It sounds like there’s something vital being torn apart inside of her. Whatever brought on this obviously painful to everyone involved shift, I hope some semblance of peace finds you both down the road. Until this chapter ends, focus on your own level of calm when you two come together and keep your composure the best you can.