I Am Getting a Divorce

Still kinda sorta stoic. But on the plus side, I'm moving into a downtown high rise apartment this October!. Its a nice luxo building, and right in the night club zone, and across from the stadium where our city's hockey team plays!

And as I write this my ex is txting me that "she's sorry for everything, and has a lot to work on". She's an amazingly strange girl, I wont ever forget her.

Oh yeah, now I know why I am stoic.

I'm also alone going through this, so typing out here is kinda my catharsis.

Not to openly offer, but I know I'll be fine going through my divorce, as painful as it is. I'm happy to offer support if you need it! :-)

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Notanymore · 36-40, M

I've been there. Was the hardest thing I've ever done even though I was able to look the cool part. I'm sorry that you are going through it and I know all of the thoughts you are having.

earlycrisis · 41-45, M

@Notanymore thats very nice of you to say, and yeah totally playing the cool part

Notanymore · 36-40, M

@earlycrisis man, all that I can tell you, is do the right thing even when it really sucks.... it'll make it better for you in a year or so, when things start getting better. Not that you can't have fun in that time

earlycrisis · 41-45, M

@Notanymore i hear yeah, this is my second time around, I'm aware of what some people do in these situations due to high emotions, I'm really just looking forward to the quiet time, and just getting a couple projects done. I also txted her that I forgive her, and that I hope she has a good sleep tonight

Notanymore · 36-40, M

@earlycrisis good deal man. Look, it's not really my thing, but if you gotta talk about it sometime, let me know

earlycrisis · 41-45, M

@Notanymore I appreciate it but no worries, just writing this out as i did was plenty for me. Cheers!

Notanymore · 36-40, M

@earlycrisis cool man. Enjoy a beer. The offer stands if needed

earlycrisis · 41-45, M

@Notanymore will do, gonna pour a Guinness right now.

Notanymore · 36-40, M

@earlycrisis brilliant