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I Don't Believe In Divorce

It isn't me who wants one. I'm not so sure my wife does either. She has been batting it around. I really don't want divorce. I want simplicity, warmth and peace. Life beyond the thunderdome. I love her and always have. I pray there won't be one. If there is, it will be uncontested on both parts, but like I said, I love my wife. I'm just not the best husband a woman could have. I'm simple, I hate bars and clubbing, I'm more of a sunshine, peaceful and fishing type man. We just have our differences. I cannot become someone I am not, same goes with my wife I don't expect her to be like me.
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Why don't you give her the freedom to do what she wants then?
SecondHomeByTheSea · 51-55, M
@Vivaci What? I do.
@SecondHomeByTheSea Then on what grounds is she asking for divorce?
SecondHomeByTheSea · 51-55, M
Not at liberty to discuss. You seem like the blaming type.
@SecondHomeByTheSea I'm not any type. I do believe in giving both sides the benefit of doubt, and not choosing sides. I only wanted to know coz I'm planning to divorce my hubby too. Didn't mean to pry... Sorry.
SecondHomeByTheSea · 51-55, M
things have changed in both of us is all
@SecondHomeByTheSea Exactly. It's so common to grow up as different individuals than we were 20 yrs ago.
You shouldnt blame yourself for what's happening to you. I'm getting a feeling that you're holding yourself responsible.... That's not true, OK. 🤗
SecondHomeByTheSea · 51-55, M
Ok, i have been actually lol