Why don't you give her the freedom to do what she wants then?
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SecondHomeByTheSea · 51-55, M
@SecondHomeByTheSea Exactly. It's so common to grow up as different individuals than we were 20 yrs ago.
You shouldnt blame yourself for what's happening to you. I'm getting a feeling that you're holding yourself responsible.... That's not true, OK. 🤗
You shouldnt blame yourself for what's happening to you. I'm getting a feeling that you're holding yourself responsible.... That's not true, OK. 🤗
SecondHomeByTheSea · 51-55, M
Ok, i have been actually lol
greenmountaingal · 80-89, F
Have you tried counseling? Is there another man involved? (If not...are you absolutely sure there isn't another man?) If you really want the marriage to endure, and she knows you really do love her, I would think you have a chance.
greenmountaingal · 80-89, F
@SecondHomeByTheSea Not sure what you mean by a "backup man."
SecondHomeByTheSea · 51-55, M
a boyfriend who is willing to have her if she leaves me.
greenmountaingal · 80-89, F
@SecondHomeByTheSea If she is only with you because she is afraid to be alone...maybe you should let the boyfriend have her.
She must've known you were not materially wealthy when she met you. And...this is, after all, the 21st century. So...can't she make some money herself?
She must've known you were not materially wealthy when she met you. And...this is, after all, the 21st century. So...can't she make some money herself?
HerKing · 61-69, M
You don't have to believe in divorce to know it might be for the best.
Aidan · 26-30, F
Marriage counseling is helpful