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I Am Divorced

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"Do You Know What I Mean" (1971) - Lee Michaels

This video freaked me out a bit. It's not the song, which I really like; it's the woman in the video. She bears an unbelievable resemblance to the woman I was married to for five years. My ex was a little heavier and curvier than this one, but other than that, the degree to which they look alike is remarkable. Yeah, she was a looker and smart as hell too, but it just didn't work out. I really wish it had and don't bear her any ill will at this point. Do you know what I mean?
Rutterman
46-50, M
47 replies 112 views May 5, 2018
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SW-User
I’m sorry it didn’t workout .
Sometimes 2 perfect people are not so perfect for each other ..
The fact that you sincerely say nice things about her shows volumes about your wonderful personality.
I hope you both find happiness with people who deserve your love .
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Rutterman · 46-50, M
@SW-User Thank you, my friend. Really appreciate your kind words and well-wishes.
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SW-User
You are most welcome .
Always wishing you the best dear R🤗
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Rutterman · 46-50, M
@SW-User Always wishing the same for you. 🤗
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berangere · 80-89, F
Sadly things sometimes just do not work out and there is nothing one can do about it.It is good that you bear no grudges and that you have good memories from your marriage.Some of us cannot say the same thing unfortunately.
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Rutterman · 46-50, M
@berangere Yes, it is unfortunate, not only when things don't work out, but also when there are a lot of bad feelings and memories that linger on.
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sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
Wow, this girl is beautiful. I'm glad you're at peace with it all and sorry you had to go through all that.
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Rutterman · 46-50, M
@sarabee1995 Thank you, Sara.
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Scribbles · 36-40, F
I hope I never go through a divorce...
Regular break ups are bad enough. lol

Actually the thought of divorce worries me enough that I've never been keen about marriage. Seems like 60% of the people I know are divorced or in the process of a divorce...idk...

Anyway, I'm sorry things didn't work out between both of you. 🤗
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Rutterman · 46-50, M
@Scribbles About 50% of marriages in the U.S. end in divorce. It's about 40% in Canada. With those odds, I can see why you (or anyone, for that matter) might be wary about getting married.

Thanks. I appreciate that. 🤗
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Soossie
She looks beautiful and as you speak of her, I can see her as a smart kind person... I'm sorry that it didn't work between you two... hugssss
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Rutterman · 46-50, M
@Soossie Thanks, Soossie. 🤗
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Soossie
@Rutterman you are most welcome the most awesome man on SW... you deserve the best darling... 🤗
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Rutterman · 46-50, M
@Soossie So very kind of you to say. 😊 🤗 🌹
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Vivaci
She's quite gorgeous...but good riddance, I say. If she cheated on you then too bad for her! 🙄
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Vivaci
@berangere Ah yes.... Kintsugi. 💕 🤗 These battlescars should be worn as badges that show we've faced it, and survived.
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berangere · 80-89, F
@Vivaci And been the wisest for it.
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Vivaci
@berangere Yes indeed!
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VioletRayne · 36-40, F
I’m sorry that it didn’t workout, but you are a phenomenal man and any woman would be lucky to have you. You will find another if that’s what you want. If not, there’s always me. I’ll be your Waifu until the end of time😍🤗😘
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JohnOinger · 41-45, M
@Rutterman Will my Real Life alsways have Happy Endings when I become a Celebrity
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JohnOinger · 41-45, M
@Rutterman cool
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JohnOinger · 41-45, M
@JohnOinger Will I go to a Tropical Island For Vacation when I become a Celebrity
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JohnOinger · 41-45, M
@Rutterman Would Angelbrokenwithawing
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Aquarius39 · 46-50, F
Sorry to hear that it didn't work out.🤗 But that's very interesting how she looks a lot like your ex.
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Rutterman · 46-50, M
@Aquarius39 Thanks. The resemblance is astonishing.
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Aquarius39 · 46-50, F
@Rutterman Wow..I think I would be a bit freaked out too if I saw someone who looked like my ex. Lol
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JohnOinger · 41-45, M
you'll fund another woman Friend
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Scribbles · 36-40, F
@JohnOinger You mean "find" instead of "fund" right? 😖
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JohnOinger · 41-45, M
@Scribbles right lol my Bad
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Peaches · F
Yeah, I know what you mean. I feel that way too about my ex. I never knew you were married before. Great song though.😉🎼
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Rutterman · 46-50, M
@Peaches Yes, I was married, but I've been divorced for quite a while. I don't talk about it much.

It's a good old song. Hasn't been played to death like some other hits from the era.
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Sarabee · 41-45
I'd get back with her
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Rutterman · 46-50, M
@Sarabee Haha. It's the latter. Definitely not the former. 😄
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Sarabee · 41-45
@Rutterman you're more handsome than he😉
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Rutterman · 46-50, M
@Sarabee Lol. I don't know. They're probably a lot more compatible.
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Magenta · F
Mmhm, I know what you mean. ;-)
Not surprising you would choose smart. This lady is very attractive too. Maybe one day you will have someone worthy of your oh so special qualities. 😚
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Rutterman · 46-50, M
@Magenta Thank you, Ms. M. 🤗
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Vetrov · 61-69, M
Oh l can relate.....
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