I Am Divorced

Sometimes when I am chatting with ex wife about our kids, although, we are separated/divorced now 5 years. She still calls me love. Yesterday, I realized how much I miss her. Our kids are doing great, so the conversation is very easy. She lets it slip, “ You know love....” I miss her. She is remarried.

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NiftyWhite · 46-50, F

I know how this feels except i’m the one who’s married... why did u break up?

Jammy · 51-55, M

@NiftyWhite one day she told me she was not happy. She left for the weekend. When she came back, I was told to sleep in guest room.

NiftyWhite · 46-50, F

ya break up was not really my choice either - i think that’s why it still resonates even after half a decade for me. @Jammy

Jammy · 51-55, M

@NiftyWhite I find it hard when we are at school together. Kids are doing well. So we talk and keep going over what the kids are doing. Feels natural to be
Together.

NiftyWhite · 46-50, F

@Jammy i don’t see my ex very often but i had to block him from texting and social media because if he contacted me i felt the same. he just made sense to me. conversation is easy and i get nostalgic. i think it’s pretty normal but it’s still hurtful. PM me if you feel like you wanna get more of your chest about it.