I My Parents Are Divorced

Anyone else agree that holidays are hard? Id rather spend holidays with my coworkers than my family.

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SW-User

I get that. What makes it even worse is people make it all about money, as if my family didn't have enough problems.

updown2020 · 61-69, M

@SW-User Yea the one who get the kids well they get the kids because they want to get money from the ex it not about loving the kids its about getting all they can from the ex.I have always said when parents get divorce the kids should get a lawyer to so they are not used as ponds.

SW-User

@updown2020 I'm only 16, I don't have kids, but I get what you're saying

updown2020 · 61-69, M

@SW-User No I was saying if the parents are getting a divorce the kids should get a lawyer as well so their interests are protected and they are not used as a pond meaning if one parent gets the kids the other parent has to pay child support.

SW-User

@updown2020 yeah ik, but you gotta remember age plays a big role, a three year old is gonna make gargled sentences. So a lawyer would be almost entirely useless as far as I know, but I still get what you're saying, and I agree entirely.

updown2020 · 61-69, M

@SW-User Well yes you are right if the kids are babies the lawyer is pointless and at the age the mother for sure would get the kids,