I Am Divorced

who did your spouse cheat on you with

I was pregnant with our fourth child, he turned 42, met some new single friends and decided to enjoy his double life before it’s too late. I’m sure there are other reasons that I’ll never find out.

@MyNewBeginning I hope you changed the locks and the garage code on the house. That bastard. Sound like a midlife for him

I moved out of state@bhatjc

@MyNewBeginning Good for you. And did you take your kids with you. And break off all contact with him

Just my younger two. The older two wanted to stay where they were. Because there are kids involved, it’s impossible to cut all contacts.

@MyNewBeginning That is true. When their are kids in the picture it makes it hard. My dad moved out of state long time ago. Cut all contact with him. Glad he is no longer (ashes) in the picture any more

Wow... I hope that’s not how my oldest 2 feel about me

@MyNewBeginning You never know girl. Just keep in contact. I was in my 20's when my dad left the scene.

@MyNewBeginning You are still their mother. And it was their father that cheated

True, but for some reason my boys don’t seem to think what he did was a big deal. I was surprised and disappointed... their dad is what I believe to be a covert narcissist, hence always plays a victim and knows how to pull people to his side, not that we’re playing sides...

@MyNewBeginning Just give them some time. Maybe they will see the light.