I Am Divorced

Its been almost 7 months now but it feels like it was just yesterday. After 12 years of marriage it was not easy for me to split with the one I thought would stay with me forever. We had such a great marriage going on but it was just not meant to last forever. May be I was a fool to not see through the things. I don't think I will ever again be ready to remarry and loving someone else will be equally hard.

I am hurt and I still weep at nights. I still go through sleepless nights thinking about the promises and the plans we had. It was all sham. How can I trust anyone again to spend the rest of my life with?

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Kookey · 56-60, F

I understand completely and after 32 yrs it's broken me. Within months of us separating he was online dating, quickly in a relationship, engaged bought a house with her all within a yr. Served me divorce papers on my birthday and married her 2 weeks after officially divorced

PoetryNEmotion · F

@Kookey You don't need the likes of him in your life. You are free now and can be happier. He never loved you if that was what he did. Can one legally marry after divorcing that quickly where you are? Just think she has him now. Poor thing. She will regret it soon enough.

Kookey · 56-60, F

Yes in Nz some you have been apart for 2 yrs you can divorce. I agreed to a trial separation and he shutdown our marriage in 6 months. After that he did everything else n married her two weeks after legally divorced. I don't understand why he did it in such a contrived way. But then he never l I ked to talk about anything