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My daughters health

My babies dad has been aloud two more visation and these are thing that have risen
Day one
According to the diary he changed her clothes at the road side because she was soaking wet but she had use the potty and had a full nappy changed. He changed her another two time and her clothes two more time during the 5 hours
He isn't keeping to her schedule which is key for Leia and he continues to you ai bots to write for him meaning that it's not been clear communications. As you also know Leia is using a potty and he hasn't been having her use one. She been using for three months now. She didn't have a sleep but he let her nap on the way home at 5pm. He said she didn't want to eat her tea. This little sleep in the car meant she was super grumpy and she had a bad night


Day two
Leia came home and her clothes smelled of urine although her nappy was fine.
The two nappies that came back were dripping wet.
He aloud her to have two sleeps the first in the car for 30 minutes and the other 45 minutes and didn't give her medication on time so it was all messed up for bed time.
From 10.45am till 1pm she was in the same nappy and he changed her nappy at 4.15 so she's been in the same nappy from 1pm till 4.15pm and she has been in the same clothes all day despite both nappies being soaking wet and came back red and her hands and face were messy from dinner time which he said he gave her at 1pm and he dropped her at 5pm meaning she been like this since eating. Every time Leia sees him she says hi many times as she does when we meet anyone she says it four times and he completely ignores her and just puts her in the car. Another thing now is when she is placed in any car she will scream/cry like I'm gonna leave her when she never did before.

I'm completely lost with what to do the social says there's no safety risk to Leia and that I can't stop visation is this true....the next time he's due to have her it's from 8am
Till 5pm and with what's happening in the 5 hours I fear for her safety. I've put in a complaint to social and heard nothing back and I can't put a complaint to the council till new year. I just don't want her to suffer anymore but I'm being told I can't stop it or I'll face charges for stopping the visation
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dale74 · M
You are being overbearing and i bet you tell him everything to do and when with her instead of not micro management of his visitation why dont you just say there are four diapers in the bag with 2-3 clothes changes hope you have a good day if you have any questions you can call me. Have a good day.
MiraRoss · 31-35, F
@dale74 I'm not actually involved I or my mum drop Leia off and pick up. I've never attended any visation. I shouldn't need to do anything for him I'm not his mum. She is potty training I hardly need to change her because she's been doing so good on the potty so she shouldn't get soaking wet
dale74 · M
@MiraRoss took me an extra year and a half to potty train my daughter because her mom would do nothing but put a diaper on her I would get her to the point where she would go potty by herself her mom would just be putting a diaper on her and say you've got a diaper just go
MiraRoss · 31-35, F
@dale74 then you understand my frustration why it's important to work together and keep to her schedule to keep her on track. I hate telling people what to do so I don't but why should my daughter have to suffer for his actions.....?
dale74 · M
@MiraRoss you could tell him you are out of diapers but one but she will go potty if you make her sit on the pot for 5 minutes each hour
dale74 · M
Then he can either do that or he can go buy more diapers
MiraRoss · 31-35, F
@dale74 I use cloth nappies so good luck for him to buy more