Should I send my daughter money?

Poll - Total Votes: 4

Hell no and as your partner says she'll take the money and not even thank you for it.

Yes send it your mother has already told you how embarrassed she is that you haven't stumped up

Only you can decide.

You can only vote on one answer.

After I divorced my wife she would play all sorts of tricks on me like taking the kids away on my weekend due to these antics I eventually started seeing the kids less and less.
My daughter made claims that I'd threaten to beat her up etc supported by my ex wife and I was ultimately investigated when the lazy assholes at Social Services got themselves together. Clearly my daughter's story didn't stand up since it had been so long since I'd seen her and I also had my partner and her daughter as witnesses that nothing had happened way in the past when she had visited.
We got past that, although I never received an apology my daughter and I would meet up occasionally to talk and go out behind her mother's back who has a hatred for me like the fires of hell. My daughter eventually met a man and they got engaged about 18 months ago and once again all communication between us stopped. My daughter is getting married next month and I'm not invited (I asked in case my invite had been lost in the post, it had not).
Should I send her money for her wedding? I have 2 other daughter's so whatever I do for this one I will have to do for the others.

Kirin4OTK · 70-79, M

You owe this daughter nothing more. She has already made her decision about not wanting you in her life.

If your relationship with your other 2 daughters is different (hopefully it is better), then treat them accordingly.

There is no reason you should feel you need to treat all equally. None.

Carazaa · F

Very frightening,

God says in the 10 commandments

[b]"Honor your father and mother so it will go well with you, and you will live a long time"[/b]

I fear for her being so disrespectful to you.