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So………. Venting

Friend’s daughter is in trouble
Is the reason I went to Ireland
Two friends
Friend A
Friend B
Male relative C
A* has the troubled daughter. In an abusive relationship
B* likes to drink and other stuff on occasion

A* wanted to stop at residence of daughter (daughter is young and in a relationship with a violent abuser)
And try to convince her to come back to England.
B* wants to get drunk.

A* is worried sick of reaction of daughters abusive controlling violent drug addict partner
B* is sick …..literally 🤢 in my car

A* has made a detailed plan how to approach property and talk to daughter without upsetting her and possibly making it worse for her
B* plans to drink more


We are all in car
Four of us. We have picked up C* who is a male relative (rumours the violent drug addict boyfriend has two guns and is hyper aggressive) who friend A wanted to have with us in case something happened.



A* Goes over plan again with us. And makes sure everyone is to stay in car and to call the police if anything happens.
She gets out of the car and knocks on the window
B* Ignores everything she just said , gets out of the car and Picks up giant rock bigger than a football and smashes his window
😐




Anyway
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I'm not gonna lie that actually sounds hilarious 😂 that's like some regular weekend stuff to me honestly.

I get how it can be tough though. B definitely didn't care about anything he was just along for the ride. Sounds like the type you really don't want around for serious stuff
Carlisle · F
@ChiefWalksWith40oz B is female so is A.
B has done more damage than just a window

Her daughters bf called the police and now the violent bf who has been getting away with his behaviour
Can use this against the mother to stop her from coming to the house again. She’s been in tears all the way back.
It’s heartbreaking
@Carlisle well as long as A herself didn't get charged or arrested for anything then normally that's not something that could be used against her in court, but I also don't know how the laws work out there 🤷

B definitely shouldn't have been making those choices being that it's not [i]her[/i] daughter to begin with. Bad friend for that situation
Carlisle · F
@ChiefWalksWith40oz Ye because it was Ireland that’s not part of the United kingdom I don’t know the laws there either. I found out so much while I was how different it is from the UK.

Other than that
I had a great time. Friend Bs many antics got tiring.
@Carlisle Well I hope everything cools down.. it's always the worst when it's still fresh on the mind. I'm glad there were some good parts of the trip though 😌 maybe that's better to focus on while you fall asleep so you dream better things lol