what do families do when they are not a family any more?
One relative said just move on. I said what does that mean? She said basically that she doesn't care if I wanna know.
I wanted to know HOW? Whose last name prevails and who gets to have no connection in life but the random hit-or-miss type. And MOSTLY I wanted to know what finally breaks a family into nothingness, and who agrees if anyone?
WHAT WOULD YOU SAY?
What do we do with our memories and dreams? By the way this relative never connects with me, never calls me and really doesn't care if I live or die. No other family ties for me..nada. When this one dies no one will tell me. When I die no one will know either, probably even outside the former "family" either. Hope I'll know when to call hospice to come and get me
She used to completely block me when I called, which was not too often, now she answers immediately and gets abusive..immediately.
I think its time for someone here to "call" me.
Sucks knowing its death day again. But something of those people is still alive with me and its like getting murde*ed all over again to hear a "relative" doing me like that...for NO reason.
There were no visable weapons of death in that family, growing up. In case anyone wondered. So please don't assume anything. There were just absences of things that should have been there.
I wanted to know HOW? Whose last name prevails and who gets to have no connection in life but the random hit-or-miss type. And MOSTLY I wanted to know what finally breaks a family into nothingness, and who agrees if anyone?
WHAT WOULD YOU SAY?
What do we do with our memories and dreams? By the way this relative never connects with me, never calls me and really doesn't care if I live or die. No other family ties for me..nada. When this one dies no one will tell me. When I die no one will know either, probably even outside the former "family" either. Hope I'll know when to call hospice to come and get me
She used to completely block me when I called, which was not too often, now she answers immediately and gets abusive..immediately.
I think its time for someone here to "call" me.
Sucks knowing its death day again. But something of those people is still alive with me and its like getting murde*ed all over again to hear a "relative" doing me like that...for NO reason.
There were no visable weapons of death in that family, growing up. In case anyone wondered. So please don't assume anything. There were just absences of things that should have been there.
