I Was Adopted i wonder why my real mum never wanted me .....😓😢

TheotherAndy · 41-45, M

Might not have been that she didn’t want you, but couldn’t have you.

Peaceful · F

Maybe she did, but knew she couldn't give you a decent life. :(

TheotherAndy · 41-45, M

Random I know, but I was adopted too. Don’t think of it as your mom didn’t want you. Being too hard on yourself. I have a sister who was adopted too

ExperienceDLT · M

And it may not even be that she gave you up because she didn't want you at the time she may have felt like she was doing what was best for you she might have felt that someone else could provide and take care of you better than she could and she just did it cause she wanted you to have the best life possible

ExperienceDLT · M

Could have been alot of different reasons but do not be sad or feel like it is your fault or anything she just made a choice that's all

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ronisme1 · 61-69, M

There is a million reasons to want you but sometimes they are not able to raise you. She may have been handicapped or unable to raise you. She might have been 14 or had religious reasons.she might have had health problems. But I'm sure giving you up was the hardest decision in her life.

IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M

I'm sorry :( *hugs* . Always message me if you need a friend to talk to. We haven't talked in a while and also I am a good listener. I wasn't close with my dad btw. Cheated on my nom with a psycho and left us when I was 3 months old.

VeronicaJane

Maybe she wanted you to have a better life than she could give you. Maybe she was raped. Maybe was a unwed teen.

Who knows? But I bet the ones who adopted you, cherish you.

SomeLikeItHot ·

I am certain she knew she would miss out on a wonderful daughter but had circumstances that would not allow her to keep you. You have never left her mind.