My dad's typical response when asked to take any responsibility is:

"I'm too medically sick to talk about this or give a decision"

Lol. This man is close to dying and still shamelessly evades responsibility like it's his worst enemy.

I mean now he's actually sick but this response has been constant for at least the past decade so much so that I can't take it seriously anymore.

I have realised that I do not and cannot empathize with either of my parents.
They might have raised me and educated me, but they are both so abusive about it and constantly rub it in your face and try to control everything in your life, down to what and how much you eat, that I cannot feel any love for them.

Can't wait for another job to roll around so I can leave again.