It’s happening
His friends and inner circle
Starting to move on with their lives
There is only so much I can grieve with them
At some point I have to stop. Let them move on. As he was their best friend.
For me though he was my life.
I have to accept that everyone grieves differently
That they love him
And love me
But I can feel and sense the change.
Me and his family
Have to cope with the funeral arrangements
The waiting
The unanswered questions
It’s nobody else’s burden
But at the same time
It makes me feel closer to him
Because only his immediate family are now distressed including me.
I was part of his family his life.
We are going to move forward together
However hard it may be but we were his people.
Starting to move on with their lives
There is only so much I can grieve with them
At some point I have to stop. Let them move on. As he was their best friend.
For me though he was my life.
I have to accept that everyone grieves differently
That they love him
And love me
But I can feel and sense the change.
Me and his family
Have to cope with the funeral arrangements
The waiting
The unanswered questions
It’s nobody else’s burden
But at the same time
It makes me feel closer to him
Because only his immediate family are now distressed including me.
I was part of his family his life.
We are going to move forward together
However hard it may be but we were his people.




