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Casheyane · 31-35, F
@Ann99 Yeah, I've been feeling that way for a while now.
But it's hard to fake sincerity. I...I don't know. Sometimes when dealing with people, it's hard to care just a little bit even if it creates a risk. Because caring isn't something we do consciously. So stopping it consciously...unfortunately, I had to learn it. I'm still not confident in exercising it though.
But it's hard to fake sincerity. I...I don't know. Sometimes when dealing with people, it's hard to care just a little bit even if it creates a risk. Because caring isn't something we do consciously. So stopping it consciously...unfortunately, I had to learn it. I'm still not confident in exercising it though.
Casheyane · 31-35, F
@Ann99 Thank you for saying that. I do try.
But about being genuine...for me, it's a matter of right moments. Even a kind person can only offer so much in a given circumstance. But when she tires, she'll want to keep some energy and kindness to herself. It becomes annoying then when people wanna try to get more from you than what you're willing to give.
At least, that's what I learned.
But about being genuine...for me, it's a matter of right moments. Even a kind person can only offer so much in a given circumstance. But when she tires, she'll want to keep some energy and kindness to herself. It becomes annoying then when people wanna try to get more from you than what you're willing to give.
At least, that's what I learned.
Silentpleasure · 36-40, F
Casheyane · 31-35, F
@Silentpleasure Bad blood is one thing. But doing things out of malice is another.
It's like this. I say to myself I hate my brother, and I'd kick him to the pool if I can. But I'd kick anyone who dares to bully or badmouth him in front of me harder.
Feelings to me is one thing. But the actions we choose out of the intentions we let win. This is what can turn a person into someone disgusting.
It's like this. I say to myself I hate my brother, and I'd kick him to the pool if I can. But I'd kick anyone who dares to bully or badmouth him in front of me harder.
Feelings to me is one thing. But the actions we choose out of the intentions we let win. This is what can turn a person into someone disgusting.
GeistInTheMachine · 31-35, M
Game of Thrones
Casheyane · 31-35, F
@GeistInTheMachine She doesn't have one. Maybe that's why.
Jasmine2026 · F
Panamared · 70-79, M
@Jasmine2026 sisters or sisters in law
Casheyane · 31-35, F
@Jasmine2026 How do you deal?
Fertilization · 36-40, F
TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 46-50, MVIP
id be playing that up... 😈
DareToSayIT · M
I keep my distance. They’re a miserable bunch, which makes no sense since my grandma was an absolute angel. Guess the apple fell way off the tree.
Casheyane · 31-35, F
@DareToSayIT What happened?
GoFish ·
does she have a reason to or is she being unreasonable? this your father or mother's own sister?
Casheyane · 31-35, F
@GoFish We don't even see each other often. But we still get news of her badmouthing my mom to a third sister whose close to mom. Funny that. Said sister listens though.
Honestly, I just wanna keep my fam away from all of them.
I can't trust someone who's close to someone who hates my mom, no matter who they are.
Honestly, I just wanna keep my fam away from all of them.
I can't trust someone who's close to someone who hates my mom, no matter who they are.
MellyMel22 · F
Many years ago I was in that position, but it was more so over a table that my grandfather made. It lasted years, but luckily my aunt didn’t bad mouth my mom, she was just mad.
I think if things are gonna change, it has to be between them.
I think if things are gonna change, it has to be between them.
Not your area of concern.
It's their issue, they'll handle it.
It's their issue, they'll handle it.
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