When I was in my SILs home, I bought my own groceries sometimes my mum and sister might have given me or bought some necessities but I’d provide for

Myself, and my care takers would help me prepare food when I asked them to, or sometimes I’d make it myself, it was really good, and my caretakers would tidy my room wash my clothes everytime, the only thing I didn’t have was someone to take me out I had to take myself out, which I didn’t mind, but hopefully next time I’ll have both, if I get a SILs house again