The biggest hurt inside me...

Is my family asking me to not just tolerate abuse, but to continue taking it. So they can be evil and avoidant.

That is my family dynamic.

We abuse you, we hurt you and then we punish you for hurting.

And people wonder why I'm so deeply fucked.

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scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M

Stay away from family members who are toxic to you.

If you can, move to another town / city.

ScreamingFox · 41-45, F

@scorpiolovedeep I plan to

Degbeme · 70-79, M

No one deserves to be abused, especially by family. Stay away from them.

ScreamingFox · 41-45, F

@Degbeme I will be far away from them soon.

Degbeme · 70-79, M

@ScreamingFox I hope so.

Gusto · 18-21, MNew

Who is doing that to u

ScreamingFox · 41-45, F

@Gusto my family, since I can remember

Gusto · 18-21, MNew

@ScreamingFox ur kids or ur husband

SpectralMourning · 41-45, M

The blood is blood sentiment can certainly go fuck itself can't it? No true family would ever put that on you.

ScreamingFox · 41-45, F

@SpectralMourning yes it can... And I know I'll be fine without them, I've been abandoned by them plenty of times before. But I gotta work through this with my therapist, because I keep ending up in relationships with the same dynamics.

Then I'm going to build my own family of people I trust.

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