Borderline personality disorder and family separation

Anyone on here have borderline personality disorder?? And also dealing with family members that refuse to speak to them ?? It’s caused more family issues due to the tension. Nothing really happened except they don’t respect me as my child’s mother. And I drew a line with the fact that if they can’t respect me then you don’t need to be around my child. But now we are trying to have two family gatherings because of the silent drama. Anyways. I don’t think this will mend. It’s taken a toll on my mental and emotional health/ well being. I do have a new therapist but he doesn’t focus on the diagnosis. Once I’m insured I may have to find my own therapist so I know how to cope with this with having BPD on top of it. Anyone have the same problems at home ??