What is the best way to approach this situation?
I’ve been waiting for a long time and searching for the right moment to tell my husband that our daughter is not his. I’ll also have to tell my daughter that she has a different father.
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eyeno · M
This is only how I would react
First I'd be very angry, probably drink and think till I can't anymore.
Being the guy I am, I probably love the child who I thought was mine.
Wouldn't talk to you for days or even longer.
What it would do to me
I'd lose all trust in you, cutting all ties
Probably, think of divorce and leave you and child
The good
I'd still love the child no matter what, even though I'd no longer be in its life.
You
Can be quiet and live a lie which is a tremendous weight and guilt to be carried for the rest of your life.
Forgivness is a blessing not all possess, pray
First I'd be very angry, probably drink and think till I can't anymore.
Being the guy I am, I probably love the child who I thought was mine.
Wouldn't talk to you for days or even longer.
What it would do to me
I'd lose all trust in you, cutting all ties
Probably, think of divorce and leave you and child
The good
I'd still love the child no matter what, even though I'd no longer be in its life.
You
Can be quiet and live a lie which is a tremendous weight and guilt to be carried for the rest of your life.
Forgivness is a blessing not all possess, pray