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Not all mothers are moms

With Mother's Day approaching I am reminded what a difficult holiday this has always been for me. Not for the reasons you may think. Not because I lost my mom. Nope, she is still very much alive. But because of the strained relationship we have had most all my life.
It's so incredibly hard, and weird, to stand in the card section and try to pick out a card for someone who doesn’t fit into any of the descriptions that are written about in those cards.
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At least she is still alive, I can say what you said, but mine is gone now for over a decade.
One day, you may actually miss her.
What I would not give for a hug from my Mama.
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skmokisses · 46-50, F
@LunadelobosIAMTHEDRAGON I am sorry for your loss!! I can only imagine what that must feel like.
Mine has realized now how her behavior and selfishness has affected her life and we have begun to try to mend something of a relationship ....... but the point of my post/story was that almost all the cards are driven toward this ideal/perfect mother that not all of us got the joy of experiencing.
@skmokisses Thank you so much.

It is good you're on your way, every kindness makes a difference.
I am happy for you both 💑

(It is true, they do not have cards for our mom child relationship, maybe one day.)