Single moms dating and life, what are your thoughts to my rambles?

I am a
single mom - from an accidentashionship. It’s tough and I am not saying no to a partner in the future but I’d rather be alone than compromise on what I need and my values. The only truly bad thing about being a single mom is having to be switcher on 24/7. Especially true for me since my mom has dementia and lives with us. Having to be in charge and responsible 24/7 is against my (female) nature. What do you guys think about dating single mom’s on normal apps I have met two kinds of men (a) are the kids black, as if that’s an appropriate question and (b) they feel like cucke it they raise another man’s kid.

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eyeno · M

You asked, and why it will be hard for you

Nope, not for me no ways
Tried and helped raise five kids, all from single moms.
I was used financially
While holding down the Fort they went out and played

In all situations, I walked away even after years of trying they tried to ask me back.
Whats worse was hurting the kids emotionally after the break up.

Had one kid who saw and supported my sincere efforts to make things work tell his mom, "you f....d up !".

Being a full custodial parent raising a 18mo.-18yrs old child.
Aside from taking her to court for non-child support, she never kept in contact with child and was left to raise him on my own.

My frame of mind undertaking the hardest job I ever had.
I lived my life now its his turn (child).

So take the focus off yourself and think of your kid(s) and Mom First !