Single moms dating and life, what are your thoughts to my rambles?

I am a
single mom - from an accidentashionship. It’s tough and I am not saying no to a partner in the future but I’d rather be alone than compromise on what I need and my values. The only truly bad thing about being a single mom is having to be switcher on 24/7. Especially true for me since my mom has dementia and lives with us. Having to be in charge and responsible 24/7 is against my (female) nature. What do you guys think about dating single mom’s on normal apps I have met two kinds of men (a) are the kids black, as if that’s an appropriate question and (b) they feel like cucke it they raise another man’s kid.

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dale74 · M

I think I'm more important question is what do you think about single dads. Here's what I found I have never had an objection to dating a single mother. Her child or children are part of her and they should be accepted as that. Before I had my child I dated and married a single mother. That relationship did not last when I caught her with someone else.

my next marriage resulted in a wonderful daughter. I now have primary custody and she lives with me 90% of the time. She goes to her mother's two maybe three days a month. Now one thing I have noticed in the dating world is women do not accept men who have custody of their child. On more than one occasion I have had a woman tell me who has their own children from previous relationships that they don't see how I would be able to take care of them if I have my own child. So in that situation I don't see them once they've said that as wanting me and loving me as the person I am they're looking for someone who bring home a paycheck to take care of her and her kids. I would like to find someone to merge households with she would treat my daughter as if she was her own and I would treat her kids as if they're my own. But there is an amazing double standard where a woman wants you to accept her and her children but she won't accept the man with his child.