.. my mom's mom..

Is in a nursing home with dementia and i heard she is doing badly and getting angry.. i think about calling her but i rarely do 🙁 it's been awhile.. i wasn't close with my mom's family.. they resented my dad .. but her dad was the one who forced her to come to America and then marry my dad .. because her dad wanted to come here himself.. which they did eventually .. my few memories of her are going to visit her friend's chocolate shop.. to this day if i smell a chocolate factory i remember being there, also eating ice cream cones and watermelon on the back porch .. and her locking us in the basement once..