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Last night I shared my family photos with my partner.

I've always been proud of my collection.

1 because my mum was a little more than obsessed with me.

But 2 because you can see how close we were as an immediate and extended family.

I spent my first 2 Xmas' in the Midlands with my mum's side of the family.

I have so many cousins and they absolutely loved me as much as I loved them.

Over the years things have changed dramatically especially due to some fallings out. Mental health and just a general shift in the way families navigate modern life.

Consequently although my grandparents are now great -great grandparents they only see the new additions infrequently.

My partner was so shocked to see how many photos my mum had. It's a large wicker basket full.

Unfortunately for him he hasn't been so lucky.

His parents home had a fire many years ago and they lost a lot of their sentimental items.
He has very few photos, so the one he treasures the most is the one with his grandfather.

I could see he was getting emotional.

But I have tried to take every and any opportunity to capture as many photos of him as I can.

Do you have a lot of memories captured and saved?
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Zeuro · 26-30, F
We used to take family photos all the time. Ironically, even though over the years it’s gotten easier to take them, we’ve become a lot less inclined to take them. If it’s not a holiday gathering or we’re not on some nice vacation, for the most part we don’t really capture the moment.

With that said, we did take a group photo with the people who came to my house for thanksgiving the other day.


My uncle took the photo. They’re not all family, my cousin brought 3 of his friends from college. I’m on the far right :)
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@Zeuro that is a really nice photo. I think it's important to at least mark special occasions with a photo. It's weird you say that. I would agree. Now we have mobile phones people don't really take photos like they used. I know I don't. Personally I feel it comes with pressure. Where will it go, is it for the benefit of sentiment or likes..? Life should be simple and could be if people were more honest and honourable.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
You have a beautiful family. , 💕
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@Mellowgirl thank you!