I wish you luck in all your decisions. It's good putting your children first like what @OlderSometimesWiser mentioned, but don't forget to take care of yourself this time. You do you.

I applaud your maturity, level headedness and obvious commitment to putting your children’s needs first. Too often they are emotionally destroyed when used as pawns during the separation/divorce process or when parents, under the guise of “staying together for the sake of the children” do nothing but subject them to anger, hostility, resentment and unhappiness, modeling the most unhealthy of relationships. You are wise in your approach and I hope it continues to work for all of you.

I am not surprised to hear this…given the little I know of you, I wouldn’t expect any less from you!
You have always seemed to be a level headed, mature, kind and responsible person so I’m not shocked to hear your chosen spouse would meet that same level. 😀

It’s so very VERY good to hear of a truly amicable breakup…especially when I’m seeing the exact opposite on a daily basis here (my son and his wife…they are being disgustingly nasty and vile toward each other throughout every day of their split)

I wish you and yours all the best!!!
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This gives me hope for a continued amicable path of dissolution with my partner. Thank you for sharing your story and reminding me that I'm not crazy in believing, hoping for and pushing for it to be even possible.

Wow