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RobinPhoenix · M
helenS · 36-40, F
@RobinPhoenix You??? 😳
RobinPhoenix · M
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So true... for a while I had given up trying to get rid of them and tried to come to terms with them instead, but that wasn't relieving, it was damaging... I got more and more self- doubts... now I try it differently... I'm practicing more self-love and trying to ignore the people who fuel my self-doubts with their exaggerated and often unfair criticism. Sometimes this method even works... but I still have a long way to go. But it's good to know that I'm not alone on this road. :)
So true... for a while I had given up trying to get rid of them and tried to come to terms with them instead, but that wasn't relieving, it was damaging... I got more and more self- doubts... now I try it differently... I'm practicing more self-love and trying to ignore the people who fuel my self-doubts with their exaggerated and often unfair criticism. Sometimes this method even works... but I still have a long way to go. But it's good to know that I'm not alone on this road. :)
RobinPhoenix · M
@helenS You seem to be suprised :)
RobinPhoenix · M
@helenS Oh wow, thank you for your words, which I would not have expected :) Thank you :) Your words mean all the more to me as English is not my first language.
My self-doubt relates more to my job and the resulting encounters with other people... which would be colleagues and clients so to speak. On SW I rarely have to be spontaneous and I have time to think about my posts and if I have a bad day, I don't have to perform here... it's not like that in real life (unfortunately).
My self-doubt relates more to my job and the resulting encounters with other people... which would be colleagues and clients so to speak. On SW I rarely have to be spontaneous and I have time to think about my posts and if I have a bad day, I don't have to perform here... it's not like that in real life (unfortunately).