We raised our son & daughter in the nudist lifestyle & they are about to follow us into the swinger lifestyle.

I really think it is any secret to the SW forum that my husband and I are very active in the nudist community, and we raised our son and daughter (now adults) in lifestyle as well.
We have vacationed with them at many nudist resorts over the years but never at a swinger's resort.
They know we are active as swingers and they both approached us at Thanksgiving and let us know that they would like to join us on an upcoming swinger's resort vacation. Our daughter's boyfriend would also be attending.
Sometimes (not always) what happens in a nudist family is that the family relationship will cross over to an interfamily swinging relationship, and I will admit that is the case with our family.
I know a swinging family will be a "hot item" at a swinger's resort and my husband and I are just not sure if our kids are ready for that. Or maybe it is my husband and I who won't be ready to see our kids "in action".
whether you are a nudist or not or a swinger or not we would love to hear from anyone on the forum with their thoughts or questions. us just before entering the resort night club where it does get pretty wild as the night goes on.

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laurieluvsit · 26-30, F

Nothing wrong with it.

I was also born and grew up in a nudist/swinger family.

When very young I thought it was normal for everyone. Then I realized ...not so much.

But for those that are of a sexual nature, it should be :)

https://similarworlds.com/nudity/naturism/4455420-OUT-OF-THE-SHADOWS-The-History-of-American-Nudism

weareacouple · 56-60, C

@laurieluvsit just look at a young child having no problem running around a room of people naked until an adult shames them into wearing clothes.

Anton · 61-69, M

@laurieluvsit Traditionalism can destroy sexuality if not managed insightfully. We, as children, were brought up extremely strict and nudity of any kind were nor just frowned upon, but also punished. So, the older you got the more the problem surfaced and had effect. Let me tell you a true story about myself: My grandmother caught me playing with myself whilst I was still in primary school and rebuked me to a point that I thought the fire of hell was going to toast me if I should ever try it again. Yes, later on things developed. To make a long story short, I am 60 years of age now and I still feel ashamed of myself after I made love to my wife. I still have feelings of guilt and I feel dirty. If my parents and my grandparents just used a different approach to sex, things may have been different. And I wasn't the only one. Just a while ago a family that are close to us beat their little child almost senseless because she played with herself. How do you think that child is going to react to just a normal human behavior God gave her?

weareacouple · 56-60, C

@Anton and they say us nudists are shameful

Anton · 61-69, M

@weareacouple Not everything is right. But there are more wrongs

laurieluvsit · 26-30, F

@Anton
That is very sad that you had to go through that.

My sisters, and I, were taught that sex is normal and natural and never to be ashamed of.

Punishing children for being normal should be a crime. That is pure child abuse!

Anton · 61-69, M

@laurieluvsit I agree. But, South Africans, especially the whites (old "boervolk") had extremely rigid and narrow ways about them. That is also why WOKE's and Transsexuals trying to educate minors in schools here or slipping into a girl's bathroom won't ever be tolerated in this country, they will literally be beaten to death should they attempt it here. But yea, a lot of child abuse according to today's standards.

weareacouple · 56-60, C

@Anton @Anton very sad