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PhoenixPhail · M
I tell them their expectation is unrealistic.
SimplyLogicalDiscipline · 36-40, F
@PhoenixPhail what if they don't listen and keep repeating the same thing
PhoenixPhail · M
@SimplyLogicalDiscipline I leave them talking and go about my business.
SimplyLogicalDiscipline · 36-40, F
@PhoenixPhail I have a long way to go haha
PhoenixPhail · M
@SimplyLogicalDiscipline Nah. Just start doing it, but kindly.
SimplyLogicalDiscipline · 36-40, F
@PhoenixPhail you will have to give me tips 😂
PhoenixPhail · M
@SimplyLogicalDiscipline Just stand your ground in a gentle way by kindly letting people know that you understand their expectations of you, and that you accept them as they are. But that your meeting those expectations isn't where you are. You might ask them if they're willing to reconsider what they're expecting of you. If so, let them know what you're willing to give them of yourself. Meet them on neutral ground. Diplomacy is a friend of negotiation, agreement and adjustment.
SimplyLogicalDiscipline · 36-40, F
@PhoenixPhail I will try to implement, thank you :)