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My sister is stalking me online now.. !!!

She is so annoying with the way she keeps sharing with me family news that I never asked for even though I showed no interest before... I just want to live peacefully away from all that and she is actively trying to include me in, something she NEVER bothered to do when my mother was alive and I was living with the family. Now when i got away, she is doing it.. what is the explanation of that??? What are the motives, control or love? Because i don't seem to understand why now, why not before during my mother's life? Why when i got independent and started living alone whether back where i lived or now in another country?

All I see is that before, she knew I was going nowhere so it is okay no need to give any efforts to reconnect with me.. now she sees risk, so let's give some efforts. I really see no compassion..
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HannibalAteMeOut · 26-30, F
Yes she had you taken for granted, it's like we can only appreciate what we have once we lose it.
deadgerbil · 26-30, M
It's naive to ask for understanding or expect compassion from your sister or any other toxic family member. The beautiful thing is that you can now block her and not deal with this stuff
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
They need to respect your decision.
Nanori · F
She sounds bored and sees u as a pair of ears
Degbeme · 70-79, M
I hope you`ll allow me to say this. Your sister sounds like a narcissist.
It sounds like pure selfishness on her part. You escaped and your trajectory is upwards. She may either want to ride your coattails, or failing that, sabotage your success. Toxic in either case. 🙁
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
She seems like she’s jealous that you have moved forward. Ask her to stop and if she doesn’t then tell her that you don’t wish to talk.

 
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