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Meet You There

After coming across “Welcome to My Life” last week, I’ve been listening to Simple Plan here and there for the nostalgia.

I’ve never really shared much about this, I’ve kept it more to myself but here it goes! The song that’s hitting me today is “Meet You There.” This week, my grandma would have celebrated her 93rd birthday, but she passed in June of 2021, at the age of 91. So many of the lyrics in this song hit me as I think about her today.

“A part of me is gone and I’m not moving on.” Maybe I’m more accurately a part of her, but the sentiment is the same. I’ve never felt such immediate and devastating loss as the day she slipped away. Her and I were so similar and even things I do remind me of her. It’s that comforting but yet chilling feeling of knowing that grandma would have done it this way. I can’t move on. It’s natural for us to lose grandparents, for her sake I’m obviously happy that she passed before me. Every day without her there is an emptiness.

”I wish I could have told you the things I kept inside.” Thankfully, we got to spend a lot of time together and we were really close, but I want to say a million more “I Love You”‘s. I want to tell her about things that happen in my life; often something will happen that I know she’d have loved to hear about.

“So many things remind me of you.” Pansies. Owls. Certain songs. The many things of hers I was given before and after her passing. I could go on. In nearly two years, not a day goes by that I haven’t thought about her.

“I know the day will come. I’ll meet you there, no matter where life takes me to. I’ll meet you there. And even if I need you here, I’ll meet you there.”

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That knowledge of loss is part of what makes us human. It's a tender sense that makes us value what we had. Sometimes it hurts a little and sometimes it hurts a lot.

But they're not really lost, are they? They are part of us.
WanderingThrough · 31-35, F
@Mamapolo2016 Absolutely! I love when I see her come out in things I do or things other people in my family do. I can feel a little closer to her and it’s so comforting! ❤️
daydeeo · 61-69, M
A really sweet post. I feel your love for her. You express it well.
I know how you feel as I've lost my brother and sister, both very close.
So many times I've thought "Oh, I've got to tell _____", But of course I can't.
Time eventually dulls the sharpness of the pain, but the loss is forever in this world. However it's a great comfort to know that we'll meet again in the world to come.
WanderingThrough · 31-35, F
@daydeeo Yes, it never seems to get any easier but the loss is temporary anyway. It’s too bad that temporary feels like such a long time. ❤️

 
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