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i dont like to think about it

but theres a good chance ill be grandma before im 35
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wunderluv51-55, M
Actually, being a grandma at an early age can be a good thing because at least you will still have lots of energy to play and build memories with your grandchildren 馃榿
Mountainlady1622-25, F
@wunderluv lol true and my mom doesnt but my husbands parents have a kid younger than my oldest
wunderluv51-55, M
@Mountainlady16 that sounds awesome although it may be a bit confusing in the future that your kids will be older than their aunt/uncle
Mountainlady1622-25, F
@wunderluv its pretty common here since we marry yong and usually dont use birth control unless its medical necessity im having my tubes removed after i have my twins because this will be my 5th csection
wunderluv51-55, M
@Mountainlady16 I see .. so you have 6 children now?
Mountainlady1622-25, F
@wunderluv i wll when i have the twins
wunderluv51-55, M
@Mountainlady16 I imagine that having your kids by C-section is a painful way to do it. I suppose that at least it鈥檚 over fairly quickly.
Did you have any of your children by natural birth?
Mountainlady1622-25, F
@wunderluv no they were all scections its just after so many they dont suggest having anymore.
wunderluv51-55, M
@Mountainlady16 have you had any complications in carrying any of your pregnancies? You don鈥檛 have to answer publicly if you don鈥檛 want to. I鈥檓 curious about whether you would prefer to have more children if it weren鈥檛 for the doctor鈥檚 advice?
Mountainlady1622-25, F
@wunderluv if i could have babies vaginally i would have more kids but 5 csections is alot already. I havent had any really bad complications my 3rd baby was orginally twins but i lost one
wunderluv51-55, M
@Mountainlady16 what happens when you try to birth vaginally?
Mountainlady1622-25, F
@wunderluv my first pregnancy my son was sideways and due to my age and he was early they didn't want to put either of us through the stress my 2nd was planning a vbac but I went into labor at 32 suddenly and they had to do an emergency csection after your 2nd it's highly not recommended u try vbac
wunderluv51-55, M
@Mountainlady16 oh I see.. actually now that you mentioned the doctor鈥檚 advice after the second c section it did remind me that I had heard that before with the various pregnancy/birth stories that one hears from people I鈥檝e known and such.
I鈥檓 sorry to hear that your circumstances mean that you had to change your family plan.
On a positive note however you will still have a fairly large family with much love though it was challenging