Issues with my new step momc

My dad recently got married. So his wife moved in she has been nice to me but won’t leave me alone. Like she treats me like a child. I give you a example I get home from work at petrol garage so I get home late. She moans that I get home so late and I should find a different job. Also she is always asking who I am on the phone to. She looks through my drawers. I have tried speaking to her but she doesn’t listen. Not sure what to do

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notyouraveragedummy

There's not much you can do right now. Start to make your exit plan to get out on your own. You have a good start, a job.

Clean your own room, do your own laundry so that she has no excuse to be in your personal space. Get a lock for your room. Buy and prepare some food for everyone once in a while.

Be kind but firm when standing up for yourself and your privacy, no discussion or argument. Do these things in a consistent manner.

Remain as considerate as you can with an eye to your future relationship with your father and his wife.

Amarjhita · 22-25, M

@notyouraveragedummy thank you so much will try this tomorrow