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Reconnecting with my daughter

With divorce this year came a lot of unexpected trauma. One of the biggest emotional roller coasters was my daughter not talking to me most of this year because of the marital issues between her mother and I.

Today, my daughter and I met for the first time since spring. Had an amazing afternoon and a lot of laughs.

This has been the best day for me in months. Never take for granted what you have right in front of you.
NewRaven · 51-55, F
I’ve been divorced several years and it was hardest on the oldest kids. It’s been a roller coaster at times with them, so I feel what you’re talking about. Best thing I did was give my son space as he eventually came around again. Glad it’s starting to improve.
Spumoni · 46-50, M
@NewRaven Definitely a slow process. I hope it happens for you and your children
NewRaven · 51-55, F
@Spumoni Thank you. I’m sure it will. Time has a way of helping with these things
Spumoni · 46-50, M
@NewRaven That's exactly what I've found out this year.
TheFragile · 46-50, M
That's great man. Glad for you.
Spumoni · 46-50, M
@TheFragile Thank you. My kids are my world and the emptiness was unbearable.
TheFragile · 46-50, M
@Spumoni I feel you man. I've been divorced for 9 years now. I've got a 15 year old and a ten year old. It was hard for them and me the first year, but thankfully the ex and I have a pretty good co parenting relationship going on. I'm with my kids 4 to 5 times a week now.
Spumoni · 46-50, M
@TheFragile Glad to hear that you both are making it working. The kids see that too.
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Spumoni · 46-50, M
@OldMan70 I make sure I text my daughter everyday and just give her updates on how things are going with me. Whenever I was in town, I made it a point to let my daughter know.

My daughter messaged me last week and asked to meet for lunch since she had the day off.
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
That’s fantastic!! ❤️
Spumoni · 46-50, M
@Jeephikelove She had the biggest smile on her face. Best feeling having conversations with her again.
Jeephikelove · 51-55, F
@Spumoni I’m very happy for you two. ☺️
Spumoni · 46-50, M
@Jeephikelove 😊😊
RubySoo · 56-60, F
Im so pleased for you both. Lets hope this becomes a regular thing xxx
Spumoni · 46-50, M
Ah yes. A downvote for my post. WTF
TheFragile · 46-50, M
@Spumoni that's fucked up.
TheotherAndy · 41-45, M
Awesome to hear
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
Good for you
SW-User
How old is she
Splitting up is so awful on kids.

It changes and dissects everything they know.

Just as 1+ 1= 3 in a marriage, conversely it divides harshly when parents separate .

Im so glad you had a good day.🤗
Tje small things matter.💜
Spumoni · 46-50, M
@OogieBoogie My son told me back in April, "Dad, I've seen Mrs Doubtfire, it'll all work out."

Cept I'm not going to dress up as an older woman to be a housekeeper. LOL!! Kids. 😄
@Spumoni HAHAHA...awwwe, kids say the coolest things 🤗🤗🤗
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I am so happy for you 💖
Spumoni · 46-50, M
@iamonfire696 Thanks. After lunch we went to a record store, bought some new vinyl to throw on the turntable. We both love music.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Spumoni that sounds awesome

 
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