When you are dealing with the parasitic family then
Then even managing $33000 in less than three years is not enough for them. By the way our monthly expenses is around $250 in our country. Now calculate yourself.
Try to do 2 things: 1. Plan your way out 2. Be grateful for what you have Don't let their negativity consume you totally.. keep some sunshine corner in your life.. I'm so sorry you are experiencing this..