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Lol. It's funny watching my mum and sister lose their sh.it over things they're just jealous about

My older sister has grown up to be exactly like my mother. Detests everything that doesn't "suit" her and mum's oppressive agendas. So scolding our youngest sister about something she said:
"oh well!!! Maybe she (our youngest sister) can take care of herself, like XYZ (our other sister) can!!"
um.... As if that's something to shame?? Isn't it a good thing that at least one of us has tried to normalize life for them self?
"plants, makeup foundations etc don't get you anywhere in life" Um baby gurl who said they're bing done as anything other than hobbies which are NORMAL to have?? Why put having hobbies in a bad light?
"and buildingadoor?? She's worried about her a (measly) hundred dollars" - referring to me being worried about my salary being cut for now working long hours because I didn't have a place to stay close to work. I had expressed my concern about this to her yesterday to which she had said "why would you be so worried about a 50 dollars being cut?" and I said "Every month!! Yes that concerns me!" but she downplayed the situation because she too like mum doesn't want me to move out and learn how to live without fear. And she's b.utt hurt that our other sister is learning how to live a normal life and might move out when she learns the BIG secret: SHE CAN.

Then mum proceeded to be b.utt hurt about the fact that I didn't offer her my frittata yesterday. Lol. She said she was "deeply hurt" by my actions. Well baby gurl you forgot how "deeply hurt" I was by your sharp tongue a few hours prior to that? When you said I "make excuses" so I can leave the house (insinuating that I wanted to go out to be a h.o.e)?? Just to shame me into staying home? I wanted to go out get me some grocery and that gym membership that's been overdue. Why you so scared of me going out baby gurl?? But not of my older sister who's turned out toxic just like yourself??
Well I hope you cry about the frittata because it was delicious.
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
Is your mother a narcissist or is she mentally ill? The entire situation you describe is definitely not normal parenting. The sooner you remove yourself from that toxic environment she has created, the better you will be.
assemblingaknob · 26-30, F
@Jenny1234 Probably a narcissist.
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religious ppl are crazy lmao; they are trying to downplay your achievements so you can give up and they won't lose their control over you
assemblingaknob · 26-30, F
@SW-User My mum isn't religious. She just uses some religious stuff to defend her mental illness. She's probably a narcissist because her religious texts only apply to me and not to my older sister lol plus she wants me to not wear my hijab anymore. She just wants control.
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@assemblingaknob oh i should have phrased it different but yes even atheist ppl from conservative backgrounds hold on to the same regressive beliefs, sounds like your older sis hates u cuz she ain't you

 
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