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Why is my dad always so bitter and grumpy about something?

Ever since ive been alive he's always mad about something. I took him out to lunch today and he whined about the kpop in my car. He complained that his turkey club was dry and tje bread was too thick. He's just always going on about something.
Rhode57 · 56-60, M
May I ask how old he is as the older guys get some get alot grumpier to . We look at the world and see what a shit pile it is and some just cant hold their feelings in . I try not to moan as I know it wont change anything but it does sadden me that kids today will never have the great childhood I had because of technology and the fact that the world is not the safe place it was for kids back then .
FutureIdol · 31-35, M
@Rhode57 my dad turned 60 this year
ArishMell · 70-79, M
@Rhode57 I think as we mature into bus-pass age we find it harder to cope with a world that has always been changing, but changing at an ever-faster rate.

I am not sure that "technology" (a word I try to abjure) is quite the demon it is often said to be. Many young people do have broader lives than merely staring at a screen in the confines of their bedroom, and many more probably would if given the opportunity.

Opportunity, or its lack, may be the problem; partly as you say denied it by fearing hazards that always existed but are now much more talked about and even systematically exaggerated; but also from lack of money. I doubt the world is really any more dangerous for children than it was 50 years, a 100 years,... ago; but you and I are from a generation that seems to have been generally, relatively better-off than now.
ArishMell · 70-79, M
Just walk away from him. If he can't act in a civilised way and try to be sociable, he clearly does not want to be sociable.
SW-User
That’s how my stepdad is.. and that’s why I like to hardly ever see him lol
Boleuskas · M
Stop trying so hard to olease him, get some distance between you
TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M
FutureIdol · 31-35, M
@TheRascallyOne he will just get mad and say he can have opinions. My sister asked him if he could stop once and he yelled at her saying who was she to tell him how to act and speak
TheRascallyOne · 31-35, M
@FutureIdol that sucks 😕

 
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