all my life i have had a really distant relationship with my grandparents.

they are the only ones i have because my fathers parents are both dead. i haven’t seen my grandparents in over a decade and sometimes have this urge to go visit them, but i don’t know what stops me. i get this random panic that they will die rly soon and i will never have visited them but then i still don’t act on it. /:

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riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

If you were hurt before by someone and have trust issues , explain the situation what happened you and you'll grow together , but if there hidden away and then you have trust issues and try to come across a different way as being suspicious you'll push him away .
All relationships that have issues lead to trust issues .
You'll grow together if you explain things to him , make sure there not too deep cause sometimes the person might not be able to handle it .
I can't even handle myself these days cause im gone deep .
I seen a post that you seen a therapist, go by them , not a computer,
Every can give great advise on this but your better off with someone who has gone through it or else face to face .
Otherwise no one is qualified to raise there opinions with you